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How many dates until it is “safe” to get her a christmas present – i dont want to scare her off or look pansy?

Help Me Rhondas asked:


last year i found myself with the same question and got her something small.
she flaked and stopped returning calls etc.
DONT WANT THAT TO HAPPEN.
i just started seeing a very special lady and by christmas we will have probably gone on 6 or so dates...
didnt know if that was pushing it or if i was safe.
please keep in mind im not talking diamonds...
i was thinking either some hand hammered silver earrings ($35) or a nice journal or something....
If you think its safe which would be better....unless you have another suggestion.
thanks for the answers...

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